Are you looking for love? If love is what you seek,
how do you think you can find it?
Traditionally, and we think, even before your great
grandparents were born, matchmaking is what has
brought and still brings people together.
One of the most common terms that we use for dating
is the "blind date". When relatives or friends are
seting up to meet two people which don't know each
other.
When you are recommended by a friend to go on a
blind date, usually you should accept. Generally speaking,
it is someone who knows both parties, and if his
convinction is that you could make a couple, you should
consider that.
Of course, we suppose that you know how good friend
is the matchmaker for you.
Usually, you don't know the person you will meet, when
you go to a blind date. the ideal is that your friends give
you a picture of the other blind dater.
There are people who enjoy to go to blind dates, and
there are known a lot of cases of couples whom met in
blind dates and they built strong healthy families.
But, as a general rule, considering that it is your first
contact with that person, you will feel a little nervous,
and the feeling will be mutual.
You have never spoke to that person, you will hardly find
a subject a conversation, and, the worse, you will not
know if the other likes you.
The best strategy is to ask your matchmaker and to
gather as much information that you can about your
blind dater. This will help you a lot at the moment of
finding a conversation subject, and will breake the
ice between you.
You may have success together or you may not, the
good part of the story is that, in any case, you may
become friends, and this is something usefull for
both of you.
You must not have great expectations at your first blind
dating. Anyway, don't loose your hope if it happens to fail.
Actually, it is something very common. there are chances
of one to ten thousands to find the woman of your life
in your first blind date, although it happens.
Beside of gaining a long term friend (you have no
reason to be enemies if you don't like each other),
you are acumulating experience for the next time.
So, keep dating!
In addition I will publish an article written by
Tiffany Taylor from the serie
How to Attract A Woman
The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact
Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component
of seduction. You can’t successfully pick-up a girl without
first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility – I.E.
Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or
sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy
amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously
puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with
your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form the
physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to
achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And that right
there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a
guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and
physical closeness?
If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy develop
mutual physical closeness without freaking
her out or scaring her away?
Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making
the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated
because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness.
Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl off,
so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing
so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is
either not interested in the girl, or that he’s simply too
timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios
in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what’s
the solution to this awkward problem?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or
procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries
of most girl (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or
rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’re a
confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and
even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact.
So, let’s take a look.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they
first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not
true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create
an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce
yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside
of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing
something. The outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate
enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place,
but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re a
personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to
give it a try – you’ll notice the benefits immediately.
2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when
you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really
like the look of, it’s important to keep up the physical
contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport
you’ve already created and also helps build it further into
mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something
called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do this. Quite simply, stealth
tactility involves making physical contact with the girl ina
disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar
or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth
tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her
in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until
you face in the right direction, then point past other
people or obstacles with your other hand to where she
needs to go.
3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish
your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping
numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the
cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard
work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a
later date, but making physical contact before you part
with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers
you and really cannot wait to see you again.
Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a
special guide that reveals for the first time what goes
on the minds of women AND how men can use special
psychological and social techniques to attract and seduce
them – regardless of their looks, bank balance or the car
they drive. Attract And Seduce Women Today. For more
information
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